1.   A person who is kind2.   A person who is at least somewhat independent

3.   A person who is positive

4.   A person who makes you feel good

5.   A non combative person

6.   Someone who does not have a lot of major financial problems

7.   Someone who is a happy person

8.   Someone who is giving

9.   Someone who is loving

10. Someone who seems to have your interests at heart as well

11. Someone that is fun to be with

12. Someone who listens 

What person should be avoided 1.   Avoid a female who’s only concern is having a child ASAP2.   A  smoker

3.   An excessive drinker

4.   A drug user

5.   Someone who complains about their health all the time

6.   Someone who only focus is money

7.   Someone who seems to have poor hygiene

8.   Someone who is flaky (breaks too many dates or constantly doesn’t show up     on time)

9.   Someone who after several dates is very cold.

10. Someone who is so completely different in background that it is      uncomfortable to be around.

11. A female with dirty language

12. Someone who you feel is untrustworthy

By Relationship Author   Donna Spangler