The Holidays are a great time to meet people!

There are many more parties and social events to go to during holiday season. Take advantage of these times to meet people. The more people we meet and know the more social opportunities you will be exposed to.  Some of these events can be found on the internet. There are so many internet websites out there that tell us what is going on.  All you have to do is make sure that you show up to them.  There is also your local paper that posts various events going on in your area. If you belong to a church there are usually lots of holiday projects and events to participate in.  The participation in these events or projects brings people together in a most positive way.  You can get to know someone by working on a special church project or an event that you would not necessarily be able to do during the rest of the year. During the holidays there also seem to be more parties than any other time of the year. By putting yourself out there you will be invited or invited to attend one with a friend.  There are also parties that the public can go to.  This includes public holiday parties at local stores.  Make sure to go and partake in the holiday spirit.Sometimes volunteering to help certain causes, like bringing children presents at the children’s hospital, or helping out a local homeless shelter can make you feel great as well as give you the opportunity to meet like minded individuals.  The holiday feeling puts peoples mind frame in a kinder frame….more social graces, politeness and friendlier! Anyone who is alone feels it more during the holidays and as a result, “single people” are more receptive during the holidays.  There is also more opportunity to put out olive branch to someone you have interest in.  The holiday season is all about togetherness and giving thanks for all of the positive things we have in life.  It is a great time to have a holiday get together or party to meet people. Even if it is a small gathering, people always love to get together! One of my friends had a single holiday party and told everyone to invite one person of the opposite sex who they thought was wonderful, but that was just a friend. The end result was lots of singles that had a great time mingling with some who actually hooked up!

The bottom line is to put yourself out there during the holiday season as it is a great time to meet people.  Who knows, you may meet that special someone!

By Donna Spangler

www.RelationshipAdvice.tv

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Things that newly divorced person should look for when dating

1.   A person who is kind2.   A person who is at least somewhat independent

3.   A person who is positive

4.   A person who makes you feel good

5.   A non combative person

6.   Someone who does not have a lot of major financial problems

7.   Someone who is a happy person

8.   Someone who is giving

9.   Someone who is loving

10. Someone who seems to have your interests at heart as well

11. Someone that is fun to be with

12. Someone who listens 

What person should be avoided 1.   Avoid a female who’s only concern is having a child ASAP2.   A  smoker

3.   An excessive drinker

4.   A drug user

5.   Someone who complains about their health all the time

6.   Someone who only focus is money

7.   Someone who seems to have poor hygiene

8.   Someone who is flaky (breaks too many dates or constantly doesn’t show up     on time)

9.   Someone who after several dates is very cold.

10. Someone who is so completely different in background that it is      uncomfortable to be around.

11. A female with dirty language

12. Someone who you feel is untrustworthy

By Relationship Author   Donna Spangler

Donna’s Dating Rules!

Donna’s Dating Rules

(Donna will help you to get off to the right start by not entering into bad relationships) 

RULE# 1No female that sleeps with you on the first date is    serious long term relationship material.

   RULE# 2Guys that insist on having sex with you on the first few    dates are not interested in you for the long term, he is just interested in a fling.  

  RULE# 3No guy that doesn’t insist on paying for the first date is worth a second. 

  RULE#  4  A girl who expects to pay for a first date doesn’t deserve a second date. 

 RULE# 5Don’t get so into a person that you cut yourself off from other opposite sex opportunities until there is a serious commitment.

  Rule# 6A guy that expects you to meet him on the first few dates is not interested enough to pick you up, thus should be ruled out for a serious relationship.  

RULE # 7Don’t date people who are bitter or angry, they will be trouble in the long run!  RULE # 8Look for an individual who is generous, these individuals will make the best partners in the long run.  

 RULE #9Don’t date an older guy(50plus) who has nothing going on monetarily because if he doesn’t have anything at this point in life, it is unlikely he will later in life. 

 RULE # 10 Don’t date anyone who has no goals or ambition unless you are willing to pull them along in life.  RULE# 11 Girls- never tell a guy you are newly dating that your biological clock is running out.  RULE # 12  Guys- never date a girl if you learn that you don’t want children and she is on a mission for someone to have kids with….it is a waste of both your time and you may end up with an unwanted burden!  

 RULE # 13 You will have a more successful relationship if you find someone with similar goals and ideals for the future.   

 RULE# 14 Don’t date a guy who is obsessed with his daughter. 

  RULE # 15 If you see any signs of substance abuse, run the other way!

Dateing Rules by Donna Spangler actress and relationship author  expert